Define RELATIONSHIP.

"A connection between variables, such as a correlation, or between people, such as a marriage."
- www.businessdictionary.com/definition/relationship.html

Define LOVE.
"A deep, tender, ineffable feeling of affection and solicitude toward a person, such as that arising from kinship, recognition of attractive qualities"
- www.thefreedictionary.com/love

Why do people start a RELATIONSHIP with someone?
Well we couldn't google search this, because there are no specific answers given.

Why would people wanted to be connected with another person?
Sometimes, it's because you're in LOVE.
Sometimes, it's because you find it fun.
But most of the time, it's because you LIKE that particular someone.
Why would I use the word LIKE but not LOVE?

LOVE is not only an undefinable feeling a man (woman) have on someone else, it also stands for RESPONSIBLE, UNDERSTANDING, RESPECT, CARE, and FAITH.

Nowadays people simply rush into a RELATIONSHIP because they think they're in love, so they make their promises, saying how deep will he loves her, how long will they stay together merrily, how blissful will their future be, how well will he take care of her. But what these people dont know, is those promises and vows you've made, should stay true and you should have be RESPONSIBLE for them.
It's always simple to say something you dont or you're not sure whether do you really mean it or not to someone else, the difficult part is to apply what you've said to your actions.
So when you tell someone you want them how badly, what would you do for her, how well would you treat her, PLEASE MEAN IT. If you wasn't serious, then you should just keep all the crap to yourself. Who knows what's the impacts of your vows on girl, you might be able to brighten someone's life, or break their heart with those "SORRY-I-DIDN'T-MEAN-IT" promises. And if you really LOVE someone, you wouldn't want to break their heart, make their tears shed, because you just couldn't bear to see them cry.

There's a chinese quote, said that 因误会而在一起，因了解而分开 (To be together due to misunderstanding, to separate due to understanding). We often expect too much from others, so when their performance don't meet our expectations, we will put the blame on them without thinking that is it their fault for letting us down or is it us who's chasing for perfection.
It takes sometimes to understand a person thoroughly, so people say it's best to fall in love slowly, bit by bit, day by day, just like streams flow into the sea. Noone should judge the others by their covers, no matter it's good or bad. The proper way to LOVE someone, is to UNDERSTAND him, look into the real him underneath his pretence, accept who he truly is, and embrace his imperfection. Remember, noone is perfect, when you're enlarging people's mistake, you're actually killing the chance to find his fine qualities. Be fair to the others, if you want people to understand you, to forgive your mistake, to appreciate the true you, just make sure you treated others in the same way.
LOVE is not about chasing perfection, is to understand one's imperfections and embrace them.

When you LOVE someone, you RESPECT them.
You give them freedom, you trust them, you respect his friends and his family, hoping he will return you in the same way and love you even more. We all wanted to be respect as a human being, no matter how mad are you, remember not to humiliate your love one. We all wanted to be the special one, an apple in his / her eyes, when you spewing venom in your words, humiliating him / her with vulgarities, you're actually telling the person that you claimed you LOVE so much that "YOU'RE NOTHING SPECIAL TO ME BUT YOU'RE THIS BAD AND THIS BAD..." "YOU'RE AWFUL!" "YOU SUCK!" Imagine that a person that you loved so much tell you these, how heart-breaking will that be. Do you still remember the day when you tell her you loved her, you swear you wouldn't break her heart? Look what you're doing. We all wanted to look good in front of everyone, so bear in mind, respect everyone with your true heart, especially someone who're always trying to show you her best.

CARE is another key of LOVE.
When we hold one's hand and tell him / her: I LOVE YOU, BE MINE. You're actually trying to merge two hearts into one, letting this special one become a part of you, so try to ask yourself, how will you take care of yourself when you're sick, how will you care of your own feelings, how will you think for yourself when you're in trouble?
Do the same for your committed partner, because she's a part of you, just like how your blood is connected to your flesh, how your heart connects to all your veins and arteries. Caring someone wasn't just telling someone how much how much you care about her, true care doesn't need to be told, it shows.

Last, FAITH.
"You'll always be my one and only."
"Let me be your first, I'll make you my last."
These vows might be sweet, but things turn out to be so ugly when a guy that claimed that he's loving you deeper than the sea, truer than the diamonds holding another girl's hand, kissing another girl's lips, having sex with another girl when you're still with him.
Where did all the promises go? Where did the faith goes?
As I mentioned above, when you LOVE someone, you wouldn't bear to break her heart, see her cry, tear her soul apart. So why would you cheat on her when you LOVE her? There's only one reason, because you DONT love her. When you face the situation that you fall for someone else when you're in love with a girl, in my opinion, choose the someone else, because if you really love your girlfie / boyfie, you wouldnt fall for another one.
LOVE is not to find the best person, but to hold on tight to the one you've choose when you find someone better.

Because that feeling of LOVE will gives you faith to go through all comparison, all the opinions from the outsiders and the seduction from the third person.

Have you now make your mind clear? Do you truly LOVE that special someone?

If yes, congratulations, I bet you should be happy with your relationship right now.

If no, you can just said that you LIKE someone, but not LOVE, and I guess your relationship status wasn't what you're looking for.

A RELATIONSHIP WITH TWO HEARTS TRULY IN LOVE IS WHAT MOST PEOPLE'VE BEEN SEARCHING FOR THEIR WHOLE LIFE.
So if you're that lucky one to have your MR / MISS RIGHT, grab him / her tight, never let them go, who knows how many lucky chances will god gives you.
And tell them you LOVE them, never before it's too late.



This's just what I wanted to voice out, I'm glad that if anyone agree with me, but if you dont, tell me how do you feel. I have a cbox @ the left hand side of my blog. :D

Time to sleep. XOXO